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The Art of Separating the Penis from the Heart

Posted by cp On September - 5 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS

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The Art of Separating the Penis from the Heart

I was on twitter the other day and Jd from Global 14 ask the question: DOSE GOOD DICK HAVE A EFFECT ON WOMEN

I call this the heart on the night stand theory. I think that most of you men will be appreciative of these next few words. Women please understand that there is a time to let go emotionally with a man and then there is a time …

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Bitchassness Alert Stop Faking

Posted by cp On May - 15 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS

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The funniest thing in the world to me is nigga’s and their obsessions with money. (SCOFFS) Here’s the thing, NO! You are not obsessed with money and should that at any point become the case you would have a job or some type of situation where you are actually accruing some type of income/money. Some people don’t have to work and still have money, and this is fine, but to the 99.2% of these fools who bang money, uhhh newsfash…I would like to emphasize ACTUALLY in that last sentence by the way. I’m so sick of hearing niggas say “I’m making money” yadda yadda hardee har, no you are not so you should probably shut tha fuck up! Sorry but I refuse to let people sit here and say that they are focused on cash when THE WORLD KNOWS, that person is a B.A.N. (BROKE ASS NIGGA) I’m sorry folks, but, this bothers me it really and truly does.
My bit of advice on the issue? If you have a friend, let me emphasize FRIEND and they continuously rant on and on about their “cheddar” focus and you know for a fact that they are chillin at the house all day every damn day, hand them mufuckas a piece of swiss OR….PLEASE INFORM THEM, that they are NOT focused on making money, and give their asses a got damn McDonalds application (available @mcdonalds.com) I’m so serious when I say this because you are contributing to their “bitchassness” by being a bitch ass friend and not advising them that they are a broke ass nigga and they are not focused….LMAO
(Sighs) (Inhales) (Exhales)
SMDH….Felt good to put that into the universe. And….CUT!
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Kudos to the lovely men of LiveSteez! You’ve officially opened a can of worms that was so on the shelf. But let’s be fair and present the perspective of the sistas, namely those with a job! A little healthy debate, if you will. Brothas, please don’t cry the blues because you got played by a women you thought was feeling you, because y’all are guilty of the same! Nowadays we date with the same caution because there are scrubs out there who prey on everyday business women, who have everything in place except for their love life. Then comes the impostor partner, who is really the guy that ends up “crashing at your place for a few days,” trying to seduce his way into a live-in position. Employment, or lack there of, is the focal point of most of the signs that your man is a scrub. Fellas, if you’re presently without work you may want to skip this read and surf the classifieds. But the rest of you scrubs don’t worry, we’ll try not to rip you too hard.

1. He is in “transition.”
Sistas hate to hear that dreaded word, which translates to unemployed. If a man says he’s in “transition” then he has no job and more than likely can’t name a profession, skill or trade that he’s practiced for more than 3 years, consecutively. If he is an able body and free of felony convictions, he should be working, end of story.

2. He has no means of transportation.
Ladies, if the man has no car, this is more than likely his excuse for not having a job! This will also excuse his need to borrow your whip while you’re out working. If your man is driving your car around town from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., then he’s probably putting it down in intimate afterhours. Suggestion: Detach, somebody out there can do it better, and he may just have a job and a car.

3. He has trouble explaining/verifying his living situation.
If you’ve been seeing a guy for more than 90 days and you have yet to be invited his place, you have a bonafide live-in ex situation. Run. Or, if your dude is squatting at various family members pads and can hardly remember where he last left his toothbrush and toiletries, not only is he a scrub, he’s a scrub with no direction. Run fast.

4. He has several children with several women.
If your dude has more than two kids with more than two women, this is a problem. No child is a mistake, but these kind of slip-ups should only happen once, MAYBE twice. Otherwise, he’s reckless with his seed and you’d be foolish to try and venture down a path of longevity with him. Furthermore, a man with children should NOT have the time to be at your house all day and night, and you should encourage him to be with his babies by any means necessary.

5. He is the sum total of signs 1,2,3 and 4, which is: your man can’t get a job because he’s secretly dodging back child support payments, still lives with his ex and kids and he can’t keep a car because it will end up stripped and vandalized. Run fast, don’t look back. read more

Tyrese Talks to Brandy About Relationships

Posted by Mia On April - 10 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS


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This is a males prospective: post from a black man over on blackvoices….He’s definitely telling it like it is. Read On…
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Bottom line-if I sleep with a woman I don’t know or care about SEX is NOT going to make me care. That kind of sex is like scratching an itch. Once a man scratches, he’s through. He ain’t sitting around thinking about that spot that itched or how good it felt scratching it. He’s moving on with his life until that spot itches again and it don’t matter which hand he scratches it with, just as long as he gets rid of the itch.
Too many women PRETEND they can handle a sexual fling, but wind up getting caught up and wanting us to romance and wine and dine them and pretend we’re having a “relationship” when it’s NOTHING but a booty call. Come on, ladies, y’all know I’m telling the truth.
Unfortunately, ladies, you are part of our problem. You sleep with us BEFORE you know us or what we’re about. Having sex with a man does not automatically make that a “relationship”. Many women will deny they think like this but I’m speaking from personal experience. Also, ladies know when their men are fooling around and still turn a blind eye by getting mad at the other woman. Now what kind of sense does that make? Why should that woman make YOU(a total stranger) a priority in her life? IF HE DID NOT MARRY YOU HE IS STILL SINGLE. The “other woman” is not breaking up a “happy home”.images Ladies Its Your Fault Why  Your Man Cheats
Many women marry men who were cheating BEFORE they walked down the aisle and then are SHOCKED that a fancy wedding dress or an expensive walk down the aisle didn’t change who he was. Why should he change? YOU let him know it was acceptable by sticking around that long. Read the rest of this entry »

7 ways to become Rapper

Posted by Mia On March - 26 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS

Today, we see thousands of people who consider themselves to be good, great or even the best “Rapper”. Today, you will learn how to be better than the so-called best Rappers out there.

Instructions
Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Things You’ll Need:

* Your mind
* Your will
* To be yourself

Step1
The first and most important step of all is to remember to be yourself at all times. Unless you intend to portray a role in a movie, acting as if you’re something or someone else could be very hazardous to your health… Trust me…
Step2
Read and write as much as you possibly can. The more you know, the more you’ll have to talk about. You can read the newspaper, magazines, the dictionary and etc…. Just make sure your mind has as much information
as it can contain… which means that there really is no limit…
Step3
Freestyle any chance that you get. Free styling is rapping from the top of your head about anything. From the sugar in your tea to the gum stuck at the bottom of your shoe. Make sure that it rhymes too!
Step4
Write a verse at least 4 times a week. The more that you write, the more you’ll be able to be comfortable with rapping…
Step5
Once you’re able to rap in your own comfort zone, make sure that you add humor to your verses… However, that doesn’t mean corny humor! Bring wit and metaphors to the table. Make your listeners dwell on your punch lines. People love to laugh.
Step6
Practice in front of your friends. You can freestyle or display your written rhymes. Either way, the more you do it, the better you’ll get.
Step7
Listen to every tempo of music out there. Believe it or not, you can rap to just about any instrumental if you’re creative enough.

50 Sure sign your Man is a Dick Bill:

Posted by Mia On March - 26 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS

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A Dick Bill Is When every thing in your house works light , gas water cable, phoneExpect Your Man
Dickmatized : when a woman lose her role as a women and allows her man, to play the bi**h just to keep a Dick in the house.
RED NOTICE ALERT Written by queen
Awareness is important ban against Sorry Men, Mom’s Boys, Sorry Baby-Daddy’s, Late Dreamer, Bad Creditor, Cheaters.
So before you take his last name let me put your up on game.

A women’s job is to only take care of what comes out her PSSSSSSSY (KIDS)Not What Goes In It. (Men)
1. If your man lives at your house and no bills are in his name (you got a dick bill)
2. If your man sit in the welfare office with you and not looking for a job (you got a dick bill)
3. If your man don’t know what classifieds are or have a resume (you got a dick bill)
4. If your man is living with you and you’re on section 8 (you got a dick bill)
5. If you man lives with you and your rent is 6 months late and the rents only $200 (you got a dick bill)
6. If your man lives with you and never offers to pay bill or he leave when the bills are due ( you got a dick bill)
7. If your man drops you off to work in your car and don’t work ( you got a dick bill)
8. If your man call you at work and tells you the light are off (You got a dick bill)
9. If your man call you tells you cable guy is here to cut off cable ,ask what do ( you got a dick bill)
10. If your man ask, you to pay him for babysitting his own kids. (you got a dick bill)
11. If your man is making love to you and ask you to have his baby and has kids but don’t take care of them (you got a dick bill)
12. If your man lives at his mom’s house and has sex in a twin size bed with you (you got a dick bill)
13. If your man use your car and bring it back , then tell you need some gas (you got a dick bill)
14. If your man ask you to sign for him a car, phone, apartment. (You got a dick bill)
15. If your man has to ask his parents for money to go to the club (you got a dick bill)
16. If your man credit score is 400 or he don’t know what a credit score is (you got a dick bill)
17. If your man lives with you and don’t own a wallet everything in his moms name ( you got a dick bill)
18. If your man lives with you, is over 25 and still trying to establish a career off your money (you got a dick bill)
19. If your man lives with you, is over 20 and don’t have 500 dollars balled up in shock drawer (you got dick bill)
20. If your man haves kids and has not realize he not a kid anymore (you got a dick bill)
21. If your man lives with you and yours or his parents or grandparents have to take care of his kids (you got a dick bill)
22. If your man let, you pump the gas in the car and he is a passenger. ( You got a dick bill)
23. If your man ask you for some psssssy and you go to hotel and you pay (you got a dick bill)
24. If Your man only tell you he love you, when you’re gone kick his lazy ass out (you got a dick bill)
25. If your man wear a wife beater and house slipper all day (you got a dick bill)
26. If your man has a cell phone and don’t work, you pay the bill to keep track of the dick ( you got a dick bill)
27. If your man have work clothes and never goes to work (you got a dick bill)
28. If your man complains about how you look and don’t pay to make you look better (you got a dick bill)
29. If your man owes back child support to three baby moms ( you got a dick bill)
30. If your man is in jail and you have kids and you keep money on his book (you got a dick bill)
31. If you man has two felonies (you got a dick bill)
32. If your man catches the bus with you to make sure you get work on time but he don’t have job (you got a dick bill)
33. If your man has more clothes and shoes in your clothes than you do and don’t work (you got a dick bill)
34. If your man has new Jordon & fresh hair cut he lives with you and your kids shoes are too little ( you got a dick)
35. If your man lives with you and tells you, what your house need and not purchase it himself, but stay there. (you got a dick bill)
36. If your man has shit streaks in his underwear and allows you to wash them (you got a dick bill)
37. If your man lives with you and don’t take out the trash (you got a dick bill)
38. If your man other women are skinny and cute he take them out ,not you because you don’t keep yourself up cause you got to work2 jobs to take care of him (you got a dick bill)
39. If your man ask you for money to purchase cigarette and beer and lives with you & don’t work (you got a dick bill)
40. If your man only come over only on the first and the fifteen (you got a dick bill)
41. If your man watch you bring in groceries and don’t help get them out the car (you got a dick bill)
42. If your man let his, family or friends live in your house and they do not work or pay rent. ( you got A dick bill)
43. If your man sits up all day and plays video games, babysits your kids he does not work then turn tell you his is doing you a favor. (you got a dick bill)
44. If your man leaves your house when your lights get turned off and comes back when you get them turned back on (you got a dick bill)
45. If your man lives with you 29 days out the month leaves on the 30th comes back after 1st or 5th when rent is due (you got a dick bill)
46. If your man only treats you nice, ask you to marry him, claims you as his women only when you are gone to kick his ass out. (You got a dick bill.)
47. If your man lives in your house and don’t clean out the bath tub, piss on toilet, and leave his clothes on bath room floor, for you to pick up (you got a dick bill)
48. If your man lives in your house and you have to call your father ,brother ,maintenances man come and change out a light bulb or a battery in fire alarm, (you got a dick bill)
49. If your man lives in your house and you have to pay or call your father, brother, x boyfriend, baby-daddy to cut your lawn, pull your weeds, wash your car, fix flat or oil change, wither he’s working or not (you got a dick bill)
50. If your man incomes don’t come in Dailey, Weekly Bi-weekly ,monthly (you will or have a dick bill)

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Ladies please be aware of this type of man if you have seen or experience any of these types of sorry ass behaviors by your man dump his, lazy trifling ass.
These types of men are not boyfriend, or husband material, there not capable of loving you there Dick bills or your Dickmatize
These types of men do not deserve any PSSSSSSSSSSSY.

There action and ways are sure sign their mom did a poor ass job of raising them, send him home to her or to ymca.
Open your mind not your pocket. Close your legs. Get some work out your men.
DON’T GET DICKMATIZE THE DICK IS POWERFUL
Feel free to add on so that the word can get out. Email to 100 women
Therefore, ladies if everything in your house is working like light, gas water. he need to be at work. Stop The Madness make better choice in men
PS
50 Sure sign your man is a
Dick Bill: when every thing in your house work light , gas water cable, phone expect your man
Dickmatized : when a woman lose her role as a women and allows her man, to play the bitch just to keep a Dick in the house.
RED NOTICE ALERT Written by queen
Awareness is important ban against sorry men, mom’s boys, sorry baby-daddy’s, late dreamer, bad credit, cheaters.
So before you take his last name let me put your up on game.

Women’s job is to only take care of what comes out her PSSSSSSSY (KIDS) not what goes in it. (Men)
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Men Turn Your Wife Into a Sex Goddess

Posted by Mia On March - 25 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS

3 Easy Steps
Three simple steps to get more out of your marriage.

Quote of the Week:
By Who He gives It To

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“God shows us how little he cares about money simply by witnessing the type of people he gives it to.”.

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When we think about “Black Wealth” a small minority of Blacks in the fields of journalism, sports and entertainment come to mind. Which is unfortunate. Because in America we are taught the value of a good education, yet the P. Diddys and Jay-Zs of the world would never trade in their “ghetto-pass” for a College degree. Not to say these Men aren’t educated, you have to be- but obviously it’s not the brand of education Bill Cosby and the like want to push down the throats of lower income Africans in America.

Had they told most of us coming in up, starting out in kindergarten that being rich or poor is more about “mentality” and attitude than actual lifestyle perhaps we would all be living a different reality right now.

Those who are “poverty conscious” stay that way by maintaining a cesspool of ideas that keeps everyone gritting their teeth about the lack of money. Mentality determines the opportunities that will cross our paths, education will determine the level of those opportunities. Therefore a confident quick learner could never go broke, ever- unless of course such a person refuses to advance beyond the mentality of their peers.

How wealth and riches is created and earned in the world has never changed, but how wealth is controlled has. Production, distribution and marketing seasons every wealthy empire. No one is exempt, not even God.

The majority of wealth earned by rich Blacks in America is actually made in the field of marketing. What Rappers are doing is marketing regardless if they themselves can see it or not. They market ideas, concepts, lifestyles and even products- and often times their own skills. Athletes as well market their talent, their speed, their strength and showmanship. Black Actors and Entertainers in America are all basically marketers for wealthier companies and organizations. Writers market and produce concepts, philosophies etc. If you’re not a marketer, you’re a producer, or distributor- or perhaps all three.

Often times, we incorrectly equate money with power. Again- this is an “idea” that has been marketed to poor people- who kill themselves literally trying to get money for one ounce of control. With money power can be achieved, but money itself is not power. Bill Cosby learned that when he tried to acquire NBC. Sure he had the money and sponsors to do so. But a quick “err no, we don’t think so” was enough to shut the door on that deal.

It’s easy to see how we get these two confused. This is why poor people can have “power” and not really know it because it’s felt the poor don’t have money. The question is what can you really control if you have no money?

First of all, no one gets rich from selling or marketing to one individual. It’s not like the egg farmer comes knocking on our door every time his chicken lays an egg begging us to buy it. So if the farmer doesn’t depend on one individual for wealth, but on collective ritualistic spending, why then do individuals rate their earnings separate from the earnings of the collective?

Perhaps then the poor would realize they are not poor at all, just unorganized.
Which might be bad news for those who educate certain groups of people so they could take advantage of them and become rich.

The reality of Black Wealth in America is that we are collective ritualistic spenders. The fashion industry, the haircare industry, the entertainment industry- such industries earn billions upon billions of dollars because the poor are unorganized with their wealth.

In reality, being rich means you earn 3-4 times what it takes for you to survive. So when you pool all your financial responsibilities together for the month and multiply that by three or four that sum is what you need to be rich. Most likely, it’s not a million dollars. You see we are being shammed by the idea of being rich and becoming rich even on an individual level.

Ask yourself what life would be like for you if your earned 3-4 times what you needed to survive financially?
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The God that will free you, must come wearing your face.”

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There are things and decisions in our lives that “hold” us up for who we are and there are things that we “hold” out that keep us from being who we are. We fear that if we are “discovered” that we will no longer be who we “are”. So who are we…who are you? What will your mirror say when you are looking at who you think you are?

Are there things that would free you but you save them for death beds ear? Or would you just as soon take the anchor with you wherever the ever after takes you…you know, gamble on the “thing” never being unmasked. But, still thinking about it every now and again when you run into the thought of that thing.

Leaving you nervously looking around wondering if someone knows. Let me give you an example: Boy meets girl and boy likes boy. But, boy doesn’t want girl to know that he ain’t into her. So he get’s into her…while thinking about him. He silences his Blackberry. Already rehearsing what it is that he is going to tell him when he leaves her. Kisses her goodnight and/or good morning. There it is again. That thing….as invisible as it is, it has so much “power”.
If you do a “little” coke who has to know? If I call her a “bitch” behind my walls, who has to know? If I’ve slept with his best friend or his not so best friend, who has to know? Well….the WORD says naked we came and naked we shall return. So….anchors away! Or not? You choose!
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How to Spot Controlling Relationships

Posted by Q On February - 21 - 2009 ADD COMMENTS

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The phenomenon of Controlling relationships does not happen overnight, but when a woman finally realizes that it’s more than just “normal jealousy” that’s driving him to punch her whenever he went crazy with jealousy, it’s usually too late.

Very few women realize that their situations aren’t isolated scenarios and that a lot of women are in controlling relationships like them. Do you remember how your first romance went? All sweetness and playfulness, with none of the bad stuff our parents warned us about.
At the onset, couples go through a honeymoon phase and they don’t have a single care about what happens after. They thrive in the delight of having someone who seems so perfect, so understanding and so respectful. How exactly does a relationship like that turn sour?

You must remember that it’s virtually impossible to know for sure that your “perfect” date can turn your love dreams into nightmares that are staple in controlling relationships. The more alarming thing is that most women don’t care about real personalities at all. In their heads, they have found a man who loves them to distraction, and who is willing to devote a huge chunk of his time and money to keeping his lady love happy. While, it’s impossible to figure out what type of individual you are dating, there are tell-tale signs to watch out for.

He moderates your Social and Career Choices. The one with the personality trait of a controller will remorselessly thrust his spouse, girlfriend or lover into a series of controlling relationships, which aren’t obvious at the onset. He tries to moderate your time with your friends (which you justify as “needing attention”, then he tries to mess with your career choices and plans. Soon you will discover that he’s not at all concerned that you have no decent social life (you have him, why ask for more?).

Physically hurting you: Does it seem like his grip is a little tight when he asked where you went the other day, and demanded you surrender your cell phone for inspection? He could justify that he was just angry and he didn’t mean it, but you know better.

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